Monthly Archive for August, 2008

at the moment

I got my hair cut a week ago and I swear it was one of the best moves I’ve made in months. My hair looks great, even after I go camping and not shower for two days. SWEET. Plus, since then, I’ve been feeling super cute, super confident, and SUPER HAPPY.

Hello Short Hair

The BG and I went camping in western NC with the THOG group I joined on meetup.com. It was apparently the largest overnight trip the group has ever organized, with 40+ people in attendance. Everyone I’ve met through the group (which has over 2,000 members) has been real nice, very knowledgeable about local/regional outdoor activities and it’s been providing me with a much better perspective on NC. I’ve gone to a few other events and each time I meet different people. I keep pulling the new friends I make to Tuesday night trivia at Napper Tandy’s*, hehe. :)

This weekend we’re headed out to Greensboro to visit some dude who’s really into permaculture. I don’t know anything about it so that’s why I sound dumb but I’m excited to learn. We’ll be heading out with a few students from BG’s permaculture class and hopefully the new knowledge will serve us well when we build our house. After this and some poking around in Greensboro for some good vegetarian food we’re headed west again for a show and a wedding in Asheville on Sunday. Hopefully someone on Couchsurfing will put us up in spite of our last minute attempts at planning on a busy holiday weekend.

I redesigned frekur.com because of a little incident with a client my company works with. The incident was a tad embarrassing, but I think everything is fine now and it kicked me in the ass to revamp the site. I’m also learning more on SEO/google indexing so that’s good, right?

I’ve made a few new improvements to my bicycle, inspired by the recent upgrades the BG did to his new ride. I’m so set now it’s not even funny. Like, set for long-term riding which is really what I wanted in the first place. I’m hoping when the weather cools off a bit the BG and I can get down to business on some longer trips with the bikes. I know he’s itching to get out more, too.

Bike Upgrades

We’ve also been giving the whole exercise thing another go, AND the vegan thing. So far we’re doing awesome and I think the key is… not think about it too much. (Also? Having some Purely Decadent Coconut Milk vegan ice cream around doesn’t hurt either. It’s no Luna and Larry’s, but it’s a pretty delicious alternative to Ben and Jerry’s and the other sugary/gritty vegan alternatives.) I’ve been hauling my ass out of bed earlier in the mornings (like 7am) and getting a TON more done with my day. I’ve been riding about 20 miles a week on my bike and doing the gym about 3-4 times. Granted we’ve only been on it for the past two weeks but I think this time it’s going to stick. I’m motivated, he’s motivated… it’s all good.

With biking, exercising and meeting new people in mind, I’m planning on starting to ride with the North Carolina Bicycle Club. They have several groups that ride, I’d be in the “Slow Pokes” (beginner, non-competitive group). Hehe! They also need a new website and I’ve volunteered to assist them with whatever they need. We’ll see what happens!

:)

*Read: $3-pints-of-Strongbow night.

time warp

I spent the last week and a half in Portland with the BG and progressed through a series of unexpected emotions, ranging from please-don’t-make-me-go-home to hmmm-I-think-I’m-ready-to-move-on. My ass has been sittin’ here in Raleigh pretty much miserable, waiting around for something to show me that I am, indeed, in the right place. Going back to PDX was not exactly what I expected that something to be, but apparently it may have been that simple.

Without getting into every detail let’s just say that nothing there has changed. The house was the same, the roommates were the same, my friends were the same. The city is still full a pachouli and dreadlocks and the feeling of do-these-people-have-jobs? It was awesome to see my friends and I miss them already, but I feel much better about leaving them than I did one year ago.

The BG and I also moved through what seemed to be new phases in our relationship, putting some things on the table and talking through some shit that neither of us was being up front about prior to the trip. A lot of it revolved around me not exactly being excited about the prospect of moving to Toccoa and all that might mean for us. The idea of building the house is a non-issue. It’s Toccoa, the weather there, the nothingness there, that I have uneasiness about. We talked a lot about our options and agreed to remain open-minded.

I am exhausted. The last few days there my afternoons were filled with every cell in my body FIGHTING to keep my eyes open. We took a red eye flight home and even after ten hours of sleep last night I’m still feeling sluggish.

Sluggish, but good.